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THE FIRST OF ITS KIND: RABBI SHAFIER’S MONUMENTAL BEST SELLER, DIVIDED INTO QUICK, DAILY LESSONS

WARNING: EVERY DAY, THOUSANDS OF COUPLES SUFFER FROM UNWELCOME SURPRISES IN THEIR MARRIAGE

 

The 10 Really Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make:

A Lesson a Day" is a road map for your marriage, broken down into 146 power-packed lessons. In just 10 minutes a day, you can turn your relationship into an unshakable bond that stands the test of time. Think of it as the Waze for marriage—you’ll spot the usual speed bumps ahead of time and navigate through them with confidence and ease.

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How to Have an Epic Date Night

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This seminar is packed with the kind of insights and advice that could transform your relationship—if you're ready to hear what most people won't dare to say.

 

SPECIAL BONUSES

Get 4 fantastic gifts with your purchase!

How to Have an Epic Date Night

$9.95

The Ultimate Date Night Guide (worth $9.95). This new free guide reveals the most affordable, magical and meaningful ways to connect with your spouse every single week.

THE 10 RDM AUDIO BOOK

$19.95

Reinforces the essential principles of a lesson a day for $19.95 Value. Your down time doesn’t need to be a waste of time. Now you can review the key principles of the 10 Really Dumb Mistakes to make your marriage even better.

THE MOST RUTHLESSLY EFFECTIVE SHALOM BAYIS SHIUR YOU'LL EVER HEAR

$19.95

Filmed Live in Brooklyn!

This seminar is packed with the kind of insights and advice that could transform your relationship—if you're ready to hear what most people won't dare to say.

2 WONDERFUL PEOPLE.
10 DUMB MISTAKES.
1 MISERABLE MARRIAGE.

“My husband has no idea how to meet my basic emotional needs.”

“My wife is always looking to start a fight.”

“I feel like there’s something missing in our marriage.”

What if that something is basic information about what it takes for a marriage to succeed?
Marriages are meant to work. Hashem created a world where this is so. And yet… they so often don’t.
Built on the real-world experience gained by counseling hundreds of couples, Rabbi Ben Tzion Shafier peels back the curtain on the blind spots that prevent couples from understanding each other. If you're looking for a tried-and-tested method to get your marriage back on course, this book is for you.

RABBI SHAFIER

Rabbi Ben Tzion Shafier is the founder of TheShmuz.com, a life-changing mussar shiur that is available on TorahAnytime, The Shmuz Podcast and The Shmuz App.
He is also the author of the highly acclaimed best seller “Stop Surviving Start Living", "Two Worlds One Chance" and "Finding and Keeping Your Soulmate".

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WHAT THE LEADERS OF THE KLAL YISROEL ARE SAYING ABOUT THIS INCREDIBLE BOOK

HaRav Yechiel Yitzchok Perr ztl

HaRosh Yeshiva, Yeshivah of Far Rockaway

"This is an excellent book. Deep happiness awaits those that are wise enough to change."

 

HaRav Shlomo Singer ztl

HaRosh Yeshiva, Passaic Torah Institute

"I am a talmid of Rav Ahron Kotler and Rav Mosha Feinstein. I can tell you with certainty that they would have said: Everyone should read this book."

Rabbi Hanoch Teller

"This masterwork is simply indispensable; it will change lives, save families and compellingly impact our community"

Rabbi Eli Gewitz

“An eye-opening, refreshing and helpful read that gives validation and support to couples at every stage of married life.”

Rabbi Shimon Gruen

“Packed with genuine Torah wisdom and a healthy dose of humor”

“I have ordered two cases of this book so that I can give them to my kallah students. It’s an absolute must for every engaged couple.”

Mrs. Miriam Gruen

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Why Every Jewish Home Needs This Book

 

TAKE A GLIMPSE INSIDE IF YOU'RE:

  • Determined to make your marriage unbreakable.

  • Angry that so many couples crash and burn when just a bit more hadracha could have saved them.

  • Tired of getting outdated advice from well-meaning relatives (who should probably stay in their own lane).

  • Scared that something might go wrong in your relationship and you’ll be stuck Googling “how to fix this.”

  • Obsessed with your spouse but low-key losing your mind living with them.

BETTER SHALOM BAYIS. LESS FIGHTING ABOUT DUMB STUFF.

This isn’t your average “blah-blah-blah” marriage advice book filled with obvious ‘just be mevater’ tips that make you roll your eyes. A Lesson a Day is your launch pad for creating a deeply fulfilling, joyful marriage- exactly as Hashem intended. Each day's lesson slides perfectly into your busy life, with practical tips, video links, and fun exercises that take less than 10 minutes.

The result? 

You’ll have less maklokes, a vibrant marriage and a kesher with your spouse that gets deeper every single day.

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10 REALLY DUMB MISTAKES VERY SMART COUPLES MAKE
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THE CHAPTER EVERY MARRIED COUPLE NEEDS TO READ

The Ten Really Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make provides an incredible amount of trusty-worthy, common sense advice. It will give you comprehensive hadracha on how a Torah-based marriage can thrive in an easy-to-digest format.

The 10 Really Dumb Mistakes includes chapters on:

  •  ​Effective communication (Scary statistic: Almost half of frum marriage end because of poor communication skills)
  •  ​Understanding your spouse’s emotional world. It’s not enough to buy her flowers. 
  •  ​How to use the essential skills Hashem has given us to make a stable, loving marriage
  •  ​Why gender differences can wreak havoc on a marriage (sorry to swim against the tide here folks, but if you’re in denial about gender differences this book may just change your mind!)
  •  ​How to give and receive genuine, feel-good appreciation from your spouse

DON'T MISS OUT ON YOUR CHANCE TO BRING A NEW LEVEL OF LOVE AND CLOSENESS TO YOUR MARRIAGE!

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EPIC DATE NIGHT

$9.95

This new free guide reveals the most affordable, magical and meaningful ways to connect with your spouse every single week.

10 RDM AUDIO BOOK

$9.95

A professionally recorded narration of the entire 10 Really Dumb Mistakes that Very Smart Couples Make.

THE MARRIAGE TRANSFORMATION BOOTCAMP

$495

E-book version of the entire 10 Really Dumb Mistakes that Very Smart Couples Make. Accessible wherever, on all platforms.

If you were to buy each of these products separately, it would cost $549 (actual cost).

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Disclaimer: Do not read this book if you’ve never messed up or already know everything because, let’s face it, you hit 21 and already mastered every point of the Mesilas Yesharim, Chovos HaLevovos, and Shas. Honestly, this book would just slow you down!